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Life (In London), Medicated

A little better?

Filed under: Aaron, Blah Blah Blah, Elena, Friends, Home Ownership, Liam, Life In London — Heidi at 8:47 pm on Friday, March 28, 2008

I took Liam to school this morning because Aaron woke up with severe back pain and couldn’t really get out of bed, much less walk the kid to school. He worked from home and the kids and I went about our day.

Jenn, Jack, and Avery came to play with Elena while Liam was at school. (Well, I guess Jenn actually came to play with me.) They had a good time making a mess of the playroom and with my new attitude not worrying about the house so much, I just relaxed.

I’ve realized in the last few days that I’m not enjoying living here as much as I could because I’m so concerned about the house, the laundry, etc. I think I’ve been in a must-get-everything-done-and-keep-it-looking-perfect mode for so long - since the end of last June, really - that I’ve forgotten how to relax.

Before we had to get the house on the market, the place was lived in - and I was happy with it that way. I didn’t mop the floor or vacuum between Fili’s visits; there was stuff on the counter and I didn’t stress over it - and we got along just fine. But lately I’ve been concerned about every little thing. Our place here is still clean; it’s just messy.

So, after a few months of trying to do everything, I’m not going to worry about it so much.  The house will get picked up at least once a week for the cleaning woman - and maybe that’s ok.

Our time here is too short not to do everything possible to enjoy it!

Second First Day of School

Filed under: Aaron, Elena, Exercise, Home Ownership, Liam, Life In London, Mommyhood — Heidi at 12:11 am on Monday, October 29, 2007

L went to school this morning and had a fantastic time. I didn’t have my camera, so I couldn’t take a picture. But I assure you, he was SO big walking into his classroom.

He tells us that he made friends with a girl named Liam whose hair is just a little darker than his. Last time we were there he warmed right up to the Asian kid. Hmmm…wonder why. There aren’t very many in his class, so I hope that he has an easy time making friends. He’s such a sweet kid.

So, he had a wonderful morning and mine was extremely productive. E and I even took a walk. I paid bills…went through mail…found all of the instructions for appliances, thermostat, air conditioner, etc., for the renters. I did laundry. I did dishes. I made a grocery list. These are things that are difficult to do when there are two of them running around.

It’s unfortunate that you don’t realize this until there are two.

But, having had a pretty quiet morning, I was excited to see him when we walked to get him.

Oh, don’t worry…in the hour we were home he made certain that I was ready for him to take a nap.

The rest of the day went pretty well. I worked on getting new pictures put in frames so that we have some of Elena to put up, and this evening A and I watched Knocked Up after the kids went to bed. Hilarious.

I wonder how long it will take for relaxing to feel normal.

Let’s start at the very be-gin-ning.

Filed under: Aaron, BackBlogging, Elena, Family, Food, Home Ownership, Liam, Medicated, Mommyhood — Heidi at 10:59 pm on Sunday, October 7, 2007

So. Wow.

We’re here.

It seems like forever ago that Mom and I boarded the long flight with two kids who, like their mother, can’t sleep on planes. And wouldn’t you know it…nothing that we brought for entertainment was interesting to keep them entertained.

Elena didn’t want to be contained and L was slightly afraid of his headphones, so he wouldn’t sit still to watch Surf’s Up. He didn’t really even want to watch Cars on the DVD player without headphones.

Fortunately we had almost the entire section of the plane to ourselves. People were at least two rows ahead of us and we had three empty rows behind. We had crap spread out all over the place.

Needless to say, it was a looong flight. I wouldn’t want to do it alone (thank you, Mom) or on a full flight. People were pretty good to us considering the fussing and constant moving in and out of our row. I even had a woman offer to entertain one of them if we needed help. And ya know? If my mom hadn’t been there to help, I totally would have taken her up on it.

We got in a little late and had to track down a couple of pieces of missing luggage. Evidently the luggage didn’t run as fast as we did to catch the flight and it got left behind.

We flew through passport control - thanks to the stroller - and walked through customs without so much as a glance. Mom and Liam pushed the bags and I pushed E with all of the carry-ons loaded in L’s spot on the stroller. I’m sure people thought we were totally over packed. But I don’t think anyone would have guessed we were moving here. We really didn’t have that much stuff.

Anyway, we walked out and I started looking for the dude from the car service with my name written on a dry erase board, but I didn’t see him. I was getting ready to start looking the other direction when A jumped out of the crowd. He’d picked up the car the night before and met us so that we had car seats for the kids (and because our luggage wouldn’t have fit with all four of us in the car service car).

He was happy to see us.

He drove us home and Mom rode with the driver, who’s name was Liam. I wondered why he looked at me strangely when I told L to use his quiet voice.

The drive home was interesting. We live 16 miles from the airport and it took 45+ minutes to get home. I assure you, it had nothing to do with the fact that Aaron was driving on the left side of the rode in rush hour traffic; he maneuvered our Ford Focus Wagon through the traffic circles like a champ. Aside from the noisy brake drum caused by driving with the emergency brake on the previous night, it was smooth sailing…and the car service driver only beat us by a few minutes.

We unloaded, checked out the house and showed the kids their rooms and A took us on a walk to show us the neighborhood.

It’s great. We have a whole bunch of mama-papa (called such in honor of the orthodox Jewish presence in the neighborhood) stores and a mini grocery store nearby. I can’t wait to take a leisurely stroll during the day to check them out. We took a little walk this evening and tried to buy some pastries for AJ, but the guy didn’t have change. I don’t think Panera would have that problem.

Or maybe he just didn’t like us. People aren’t necessarily the friendliest around here. Not sure if it’s being in the city or because we’re the minority. Regardless, it doesn’t really bother me; it’s just not what I’m used to in suburban KC. And actually, it makes life a little more interesting - particularly when Liam says things like, “Look Grammy! That man has round hair.”

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No, Liam, it’s not his hair. It’s a shtreimel - a traditional headpiece worn by Hasidic Jews on the Sabbath and religious holidays.

Seriously…it’s one thing to point out every London taxi and bus along with Minis, 300s and Ford Focus Wagons (green), but the innocent observations have to stop somewhere. Round hair? There’s no way in hell we’re going to tell him what a yarmulke is.

Anyhoo, we also have a shopping center nearby - about a 15-20 minute walk. (I have no idea how to get there by car.) Mom and I walked over there one day. They have some typical American stores…Gap, Starbucks, etc., along with the familiar UK stores - H&M - ok, maybe that’s the only one.

I was on a mission to buy Liam shoes because all he had was a pair of sandals and we went from summer to fall in eight hours on Tuesday. Somehow we missed SS/LP and LS/SP weather. The kid needs his toes covered. It’s COLD here when the sun isn’t out.

We did take Mom out on a three-hour tour of some of the sights, but aside from that, we haven’t been out much. I’ve been trying to get things organized and the kids have been enjoying their new favorite occupations.

L watches the washer and dryer

and talks to people via Skype.

E sits on the toddler-size step at the back door and the side door, where L parks his tricycle.

And AJ shops. Here he’s making a virtual trip to the grocery store. They deliver, so we don’t really have to make big trips.

And we can order alcohol online.

I know, I know…sounds like crazy talk, don’t it?

We got some other good news today. No, the house hasn’t sold…but it’s rented for the next six months - to a family who’s company has transferred the husband from Korea to the US for two years or so. And after a lengthy discussion with our lessor’s plumber I found out that the male counterpart of the couple from whom we are renting is an attorney. And he and his wife (we think she’s a doctor) got transferred to the Philippines for a couple of years for one of their jobs.

Strange how the world works, isn’t it?

More later, I promise. I have so many pictures you haven’t seen, and stories you haven’t heard, but tonight isn’t the night. I fear that Elena will wake any moment and I really should try to get some sleep before she does. Because she’s afraid of her room and the minute she wakes up, she wants to get the hell outta there. That means playing down here or sleeping in my bed. Either way, sleep eludes me.

So, have a lovely evening, Americans. Hopefully I won’t see you before midnight your time.

Oh, and if there’s any other nationality reading out there? I didn’t mean to leave you out. Rest assured that Heidi Chronicles is all-inclusive. So you have a lovely [insert time zone appropriate time of day] as well.

g’night.

complete suckage

Filed under: Aaron, Blah Blah Blah, Elena, Family, Food, Friends, Home Ownership, Liam, Medicated, Mommyhood, Murphy & Macey, Ugh — Heidi at 9:04 pm on Monday, September 17, 2007

Had a great post written and saved, but for some reason it didn’t stick. Now I don’t feel like rewriting it. Grrr.

Basically it was quiet and for the first time in months, I was alone listening to the background buzz that is silence. E was asleep and L was awake, but he was with my mom at work. The dogs were basking in the bright squares beneath the windows formed by the sun coming in from the south. I read a bit, but eventually my thoughts turned to what I have left to do.

  • Change addresses, cancel bills, coordinate air conditioner repairs and carpet laying, slit my wrists when the house doesn’t sell by October, etc.
  • I’ve managed to delegate several tasks along with locating someone to mow the lawn and people seem to be taking it in stride. I knew my friends were cool, but this is over the top.

As far as everyone else goes,

  • Am done working on the house - I hope. If I have to go back, I will burn it down.  I’m trying to take some time to relax and I actually did have one great evening before we left KC.  It was all. about.  me.  I felt a little guilty about it since I probably should have been packing, but I enjoyed it thoroughly and the feelings of guilt dissipated with the ingestion of wine, cheese, and pate.  (I think pate tastes like braunschweiger.  And just in case you’re curious, here’s a recipe.)  Interestingly, I read Skinny Bitch and now I’m most likely headed toward vegetarianism, if not veganism.  What a pain in the ass.
  • Liam freaks out whenever I leave his sight. He yells, “Mama! I want to go wif you! MAMA!!!” Some variations include: “I want to put pants on so I can go wif you,” and “I want to act appwopwiatwy so I can go wif you, Mama!”  Poor guy.  I don’t go anywhere any more without explaining, in detail, how it’s going to go down.  The meltdowns are wearing me out.
  • Elena learned how to go up and down the stairs out of sheer frustration. She’s not getting all that much practice because just as she gets partway down I run by her going up. She actually waits a moment to see if I’m going to be back before finally heading up.  She’s also getting molars and has been up the last two nights, so even though I’ve been going to bed early, I’m exhausted.
  • AJ is pining away as he waits for us. Email him if you want to know what he’s up to. He has a blog and he’s funnyl
  • Murphy is concerned he is going to get left. As soon as he sees me moving suitcases around, he heads for the car to wait there.  He has no idea how cushy his life will be with Bill.  The sheets are yours for the licking, Murphy.  Seriously.
  • Mace is taking the whole thing in stride.  She can’t wait to live with Riley.  I wonder if they will stop licking each other once the newness wears off and he realizes that she is going to live with him for three moths.

I’m done posting now because it’s 10 and Liam is waiting impatiently for me to come to bed.  I’m not complaining, though.  I can hardly keep my eyes open.

When life throws you more lemons, juggle.

Filed under: Aaron, Blah Blah Blah, Elena, Family, Food, Friends, Home Ownership, Liam, Medicated, Mommyhood, Ugh — Heidi at 8:11 pm on Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Elena has another double ear infection.

Liam wore underwear yesterday and peed AND pooped his pants while he was over at Gabe’s. THEN, after Jenni gave him a bath to get him cleaned up, he decided he didn’t want to stay and nap so he could play afterward. (The little man is scared to death that I’m going to leave him.) G was heartbroken…or maybe it was the 101 degree fever he had when HE woke up from his nap. (Thanks Elena.) I picked him up after driving across town to pick up my paint support person and he came to the house with us. Fortunately I did not have to paint him to get him to leave us alone while we were working today.

The car has more damage than originally thought, so it may not be done on Friday in time for me to sell it.

But, it really doesn’t matter because we’re not leaving next week.

We found out today that that our furniture won’t be arriving until Sept. 26th at the earliest. But you know?  I basically just added it on to the list of Really Crappy Things That Keep Happening To Me and I didn’t really even miss a beat when A told me.  I think I just said something like, “Well, I guess we’re not supposed to come - and if we do chances are that the house will be torn to shreds in a freak hurricane affecting ONLY Golders Green because everything I touch these days turns to dog shit.”

I don’t even want to be around me.

Oh well.

Poor A was really upset. He’s been looking forward to the 22nd for weeks.  And to make matters worse, he finally bought our tickets yesterday. Talk about twisting the blade….

On a good note, Alexis (who’s on vacation from CA) and I got the offensive rooms painted (also known as “neutralized”) so now maybe someone will at least make an offer. It would be fun to have something to consider, but I’m sure that once they find the old tiki statue in the attic during inspections the buyers will suffer immediate remorse and then the tarantula they’ll find crawling in their bed will seal the deal.If only I lived in Hawaii.

Then I could juggle mangoes.

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