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Ahm nawt ded yeat.

Filed under: Blah Blah Blah — Heidi at 8:34 pm on Monday, July 30, 2007

Yeah, I’m still here.  Been doing a lot of the same thing:

  • packing
  • chasing E out of the bathroom
  • packing
  • listening to Liam contradict every single thing I say
  • packing
  • listening to E yell “quack quack quack” because it’s the first word we actually understood…she also says “uh-oh” and “dog” - and I think she tried to say yogurt again the other day and she definitely has “cracker” nailed
  • thinking about what I should be packing when I’m not packing
  • laundry
  • sneaking in the occasional game of Big Brain Academy
  • dishes
  • planning to pack for the kids
  • chasing E out of the dog water in the laundry room
  • laughing at all of the funny things coming out of L’s mouth…I’ll expound later on
  • separating things into piles:  ship, take when we go, store, sell/give away
  • not showering for days in a row
  • trying to dodge E in her incessant attempts to walk/crawl to me and pull down my pants
  • packing
  • trying to figure out who is going to house the five of us while we wait for the go-ahead to make the trip…4-6 weeks after A leaves
  • worrying that if someone wants to see the house that two hours won’t be enough time to shove everything under the bed - which we will no longer have as of Thursday, because the buyer is coming to pick it up.  Where in the hell am I going to put the clean laundry?

On an exciting note, I went to the dentist today.  I have to go back tomorrow for a “deep cleaning.”  (That sounds a little like a dental school p0rn!)  Then I’m going back to have a few fillings - neither of which are cavities, a vaneer on my front tooth that’s been dead since fifth grade when I ran into the side of a pool, and THEN…I’m getting my teeth bleached!!!  Wooo hoo!
Um, I think that about covers it.  I’m reading you all as much as I can…a few more weeks and I’ll have nothing but time, I’m sure.

More to come…hopefully soon.

More On the Back Blog

Filed under: BackBlogging — Heidi at 8:47 pm on Saturday, July 28, 2007

I have had these written for a while now.  I’m SO behind.  Sorry.

And, just so you know, I am still reading your blogs…just haven’t had time to comment or post on mine. I’m  too busy preparing to move to write anything of substance.  But there will be stories to tell. I’ll make it up to you…promise.

I’m too lazy to link these, so if you’re interested, you’ll have to cut and paste.

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/06/25/from-picturesque-to-panic/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/06/26/projects-strewn-everywhere/ (updated and added pics)

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/06/28/nosleeptil-well-i-dont-know-when/ (updated and added pics)

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/06/29/birthday-bust/ (updated and added pics)

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/06/29/thank-goodness-for-do-over-birthdays/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/01/does-your-realtor-give-you-this-kind-of-service/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/02/three-unexpected-hours/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/03/another-birthday-party/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/04/pop-bang-booooom/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/05/happy-birthday-jen/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/06/one-must-have-a-thick-skin-when-selling-ones-home/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/07/i-like-it-when-they-leave-comments/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/08/more-peeing-and-working-on-the-house/

http://heidichronicles.com/2007/07/14/crazy-days-just-keep-comin/

I may live in Kansas, but it’s going to be hard to leave Alabama.

Filed under: Aaron, Blah Blah Blah, Home Ownership — Heidi at 4:00 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Was listening to music on my mp3 player just now and had it set to Play All because 10,000 Maniacs is the first item alphabetically and that’s what I wanted to hear. (Had to hurry b/c E was yelling at me.)

I had just picked up E when the phone rang and A was on the other end talking about how he’s going to U-Haul to get boxes so we can pack. Just then the mp3 player switched to the next album. It was Alabama Christmas, which is one of the signature xmas albums in my family.

At that moment, it hit me that I won’t be spending any time with my family leading up to xmas; I’ll be home to visit when everyone is so. damn. tired. of the xmas music.

I felt that pre-cry tightening of the chest and evidently sounded different because A asked if I was ok.

I wasn’t crying and the tightness has begun to subside when I said yes.
Because I am ok…and I will be just fine.
I was just overwhelmed by the rush of feelings I experienced, not having been prepared for something like that to trigger a near burst of tears.

I suppose this is going to happen more often than not. It makes sense, really. I can prepare to miss people, pups, places, and things. It’s those unexpected things that are really going to get me.

So, if you see me at Banana Republic crying over a pair of chinos, just walk on by. I’m ok.

Really, I am.

The Search For Home Sweet Home: London Day 5

Filed under: Aaron, BackBlogging, Elena, Food, Friends, Home Ownership, Mommyhood — Heidi at 11:32 pm on Friday, July 20, 2007

A didn’t go sign paperwork this morning.

No worries, no worries. It’s not because we lost the house. The contract just had a bunch of weird crap in it that we had to sort out. For example, it said that we weren’t supposed to use nails. Then it stated that we can only use picture hanger hooks to hang pictures.

Ummm, the only picture hanger hooks I’m familiar with require what??? Nails.

So, we went back and forth with the contract for a few hours and waited for the estate agency to get in touch with the firm to wire the deposit to finalize the Deal. Then we headed out to the British Museum for the day.

It was raining, (You can see the guy across the street trying to stay dry with only a newspaper over his head. Good luck, buddy.)

From 2007.06.15-21…

so I stopped for coffee and A ran down the street to buy an umbrella. He was gone a loooong time.

By the time he finally got back, I’d gone through several options of how we could get there and what else we could do since it was supposed to rain all day. E was already going stir crazy in the room and when we put her in the stroller and went out the door to our room, she was completely happy. I was NOT taking the child back up to our room.

We decided to grab lunch in the restaurant attached to the hotel. But A was soaked. Evidently his raincoat isn’t waterproof.

Lunch was fine, but ridiculously expensive. And the service staff (like everyone else in this town) spent most of its time making eyes at Elena. People here LOVE babies, I guess.

Anyway, we went back up the room to get E down for a “nap” and I sat down to do this and A watched a movie.

About an hour after we got into the room, I opened the curtains and it looked like this.

I checked out the forecast and it looked like all of the rain was going to miss us. Woo HOOOO!

We got ready to go out and walked along the Thames, went by the Royal Courts Of Justice, which we toured on our last trip here, and moseyed over to Freemason’s Hall to see if we could grab a pint and some food at the pub across the street. We were just waiting on a call from Daniel to let us know that the money transfer had come through.

We strolled past the Freemason’s Arms (I think that’s what it’s called) and were walking down an alley to find some food when he called wanting to know where the money was.

It was our understanding that he was having his transfer person talk to our transfer person and that we didn’t have to do anything other than finalize the contract to complete the deal.

Nope. A was supposed to contact the money wirer and get it taken care of on his end. AND, we found out we needed his new bosses signature on the lease since it’s actually a corporate expense.

And as luck would have it, the boss man is in the US and was just getting into work when we were at the close of business UK time. There wasn’t any way everyone could have everything to everyone else today.

I have to say though, once A got on the phone with his peeps they shot into action and we did get everything to them so, A says it shouldn’t be a problem.

I won’t lie, I’m a little nervous. But there’s nothing we can do about it now.

If it’s meant to be, it will work out.

I do want to give kudos to A’s company. They absolutely understand how expensive it is to live and work in London. They have done SO many things to make our lives easier…this house hunting trip, two trips home a year, and a very generous housing allowance, among other things.

I am particularly grateful for the housing allowance. Rent here is outrageous and there’s no way A and I could have covered the deposit and six month’s rent.

To put it into perspective I’ll give you a scenario.

When I graduated from college, my part of the rent at my first apartment was $425/month. The British rent by week, and when you break it down that way, I was paying $98/week. At the current exchange rate that’s approximately £45/week.

The company that we used doesn’t even offer anything less than £175/week.  That’s $350/WEEK - just $75 short of the MONTH’S rent I was paying in my first apartment.
Looking at the numbers makes me sick to my stomach. It’s absolutely ridiculous.

So, to combat the concern, I’m just trying not to do the exchanges in my head any longer. It’s a lot less stressful when I pay 2 pounds, 85 pence for my iced latte instead of 5 dollars and 70 cents.

Anyway, we got what we could worked out and headed back to the hotel to pack up.  Our car arrives at 5.30 in the morning.  E is asleep and hopefully she’ll stay that way….

The Search For Home Sweet Home: London Day 4

Filed under: Aaron, Elena, Home Ownership, Mommyhood, Travel — Heidi at 2:28 pm on Thursday, July 19, 2007

Before I go anywhere near talking about the house, I have to vent.

I am ready to throw E out of the 4th floor window. She has slept all of 30 minutes today and she will not SHUT UP.

Yes, I know things are all messed up for her because we’re traveling, but that doesn’t make it a bit easier for me when she’s up until 2 a.m. crying because she’s tired. Nor do I appreciate the constant night nursing as she sleeps between A and me because she won’t go to sleep in the pack and play. And I’ve been moments away from tears of defeat on numerous occasions as I pushed the stroller through the crowds - at least they had warning we were coming, I suppose.

At any rate, in no way is she making any attempt to endear herself to me. It’s just lucky for her that she’s my daughter. I would have left any other child acting in this manner at the Tower Of London and you would have seen me running away from the stroller, weaving side to side, hands on my head, screaming, “I’m free. I’m FREE!” with an occasional witchy cackle escaping every once in awhile amidst the rant.

Instead I decided that it was early enough in the evening to put her in the pack and play and let her fuss. This is what I’d do at home, but I have to be more considerate since we’re in a hotel. Of course she cried, but the kid couldn’t stay on her feet because she was so tired. She’d pull up on something, let go, and immediately flop to the floor. She looked like a drunk toddler.

Ok, so she’s asleep for the moment and A went out to meet Joel, the current associate whose position he will be taking, for dinner and drinks, so “I’m FREEEEEEE!” And now I’ll share the info about the house.

As far as waiting to find out if the deal was going through, today was hell. By 10 this morning we’d offered what we thought they wanted, and more. And we headed out to enjoy London.

But as we walked around and the hours ticked by without any word from Daniel, I got a little worried. We were walking through the Panic Attack! Art In the Punk Years exhibit at the Barbican, and even as I watched the film of the nekkid man beating the crap out of himself with boxing gloves, all I could think about was the fact that we only have one more day to find a place if this one falls through.

I finally convinced A that it would be ok to call and see what was going on.

Daniel said that the guy said everything sounded good, he just needed to check with his wife. Buuut, the dude was in a meeting and wouldn’t get Daniel’s message until afterward.

Of course, I got paranoid. Just a few thoughts that ran through my head…

  • The guy isn’t really in a meeting. He’s actually considering another offer and is going to wait until the last possible moment to tell us no.
  • Daniel hasn’t called because he’s showing someone else the property hoping to get more money.
  • The guy likes us, but his wife is completely against us and they’re busy duking it out to determine whether or not we get in.
  • Daniel is working on a bigger deal and no longer gives a shit about us or our situation.

But none of these was the case. And when Aaron called to check in again, Daniel was getting a little bit irritated with them as well.

However, he assured us that the owners like us and they really want the deal to work. This did absolutely nothing to cease my paranoia.

I didn’t get excited until after Daniel called back to tell us it was a go and A was off of the phone. Then I did a little dance.

So, assuming that everything goes well with the contract signing in the morning and the money gets wired properly, we are the new renters of this house in Golders Green.

From 2007 House - ..

A did a fantastic job.

Perhaps I’ll write more later, but the monster stirs. In the meantime, check out the pics.

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Just so you all know, E was up from 8.22 to 11.43. AJ came home from dinner to help me because I was going to throw myself out the window.

Hopefully I’ll have time to give you the skinny on the place tomorrow. But right now for those of you asking, yes, there will be a guest room, of sorts. It’ll be a little crowded and may have to expand into my studio, but it will exist.

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